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ADVENTURE RETREATS

Create deep connection, playful passion
& toe-curling ecstasy

Sextacular® Adventure and Passion retreats are unique excursions created to enliven passion, deepen intimacy and rekindle toe-curling ecstasy in yourself or in your relationships.

The experience is intentionally designed to disrupt beliefs, behaviors and patterns in yourself, your relationships and sexuality. We want you to feel a tangible, take away shift in your life.

Your excursions are a mix of adventure, vulnerability and navigating the unknown while working closely with Dr. Lori C. Ebert – Health Educator, Relationship & Sexual Wellness expert. These immersive experiences integrates new mindsets, connections and neural circuitry for real behavior change you can take home.

Authentic change once and for all. With fun!

It doesn’t matter if you are single, married, sexless, divorced, polyamorous or just want an adventurous vacation. Sextacular® retreats are for anyone wanting deeper connections, authentic intimacy and toe-curling ecstasy.

Couples ● Women ● Men
Private or Group 
In-person or Virtual

 Group retreats are pre designed and packed with the power of group discussion and activities. Private adventures are tailored experiences for either one couple, a couples friend group, girlfriend getaways, men’s trips or work retreats. 

Just ask… we can tailor it to meet your needs. These premier Sextacular® adventures offer unforgettable and life-changing experiences, skills and transformation. They also connect you to like minded individuals around the world creating priceless memories and friendships.

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What Clients Are Saying

” …You have made such a difference for us! We can’t wait until our next session to see who we’ve become! Love you!”
   
“… we did it!  We had sheet clenching sex!” 
 
  ”  …I acknowledge you for causing us to take on this work and create an amazing, extraordinary and beautiful relationship together.”
 
    “… we’ve gotten more out of our first session than we did in a year of couples therapy.”
 
    ” …we would have paid four times what we did had we known we could feel like this and save our relationship!”
 
“… now I can ask for what I need inside and outside the bedroom!”
 
“… I’ve never felt this close or loved by my partner.”
 
“… what we are doing in relationship isn’t conventional, but it works and we are happy.”
 
“… I’m having the best sex of my life in my 50’s!”
 
“…we finally know how to communicate… I’ve never felt more authentic, vulnerable and connected to my partner.”

Experience the charm of BELIZE

Escape to Belize, a worldwide retreat destination and one of its small islands surrounded by the Caribbean ocean. Experience what is possible being immersed in a culture, reality and experiences with happy, friendly, loving and joyful people. 
 
Take home essential skills and tools to up level the life, love and intimacy you desire. As well as some of the island magic and mindset “What’s not to be happy about!”  
  
Escape the pressure and chaos of everyday life and recapture the passion and joy you deserve in life!  
 
“Life and relationships are meant to be lived with Love, connection and joy. It starts inside of you first. You can’t have what you are not. Be the change you desire and the life and love you desire will unfold for you.”

~Dr. Lori C. Ebert, PhD

WHY DO RETREATS

Many things are required for people and relationships to permanently change. First is an awareness of unconsciousness wounds, beliefs, behaviors, habits and patterns. Once aware of these, the healing and transformation journey begins. 

Retreats offer a deep, distraction less dive into the most critical aspect of self and relationship. Current or new clients will discover sabotaging blind spots that limit themselves or relationships.

With Dr. Lori’s expert guidance and unique Sextacular® coaching methods you’ll identify what’s in your way and what’s needed to modify behaviors. Then you immediately put it to practice in your adventures, maximizing natural hormones to help you create long lasting change. 

When you share thrilling adventures it activates adrenaline and has been shown to create unique, long lasting bonds between people along with fun memories. Detoxing from technology and distractions as you relax in paradise releases serotonin – the hormone that helps you feel happy, calm and focused. Priming you to learn, integrate and practice. The reward and motivation hormone – dopamine, is released after difficult tasks such as caving, sailing, or having vulnerable realizations or conversations. It’s the hormonal “hit” that makes you want more.

Also, recharging your connection with self or emotional intimacy and passionate sex with a partner releases Oxytocin – the “Love Drug”. Oxytocin regulates emotional responses, positive behaviors, trust, empathy, gazing, positive memories, communication and bonding cues. It’s the feel good juice people are missing in the monotony of day to day life. This becomes more available and abundant in the retreat experience. 

Retreats give you the perfect hormonal cocktail to fuel, motivate and reward changes. Add education, environment, energy, embodiment and ecstasy and you have the elements necessary to rewire your brain for behavior change. All you have to do is say YES to the adventure, a support structure and bring your practices home!

FAQs

Yes, passports are mandatory along with proof of return. Visas are not required from the United States, the United Kingdom and Canada. Always travel with a photocopy of your passport so if your original gets lost the replacement process will be easier and faster.

Getting to Caye Caulker is possible by either taking a 10-minute plane ride from the international airport or a 45-minute boat ride from Belize City.

Flights cost $84.00 US one way or $168.00 US round trip. Scheduled flight times to Caye Caulker (CUK) from the International airport are 40 minutes after the hour, every hour. The last scheduled flight is 4:40 PM. Flight time is 10 minutes
with Maya Island Air, airlines Tropic Air.

If you prefer to travel by boat you must first take a taxi cab from the International airport to the Marine Terminal in Belize City. The cost is $25 -$30 flat (not per person) for 2 persons and the ride is about 20 minutes. A taxi driver in Belize City can be arranged to meet you at the airport and drive you to the Marine Terminal.

From the Marine Terminal you simply catch the next boat to Caye Caulker with San Pedro Belize Express. The cost of the water taxi is under $25 one way and $50 round trip USD. The trip takes about 45 minutes. Plan to be at the dock no less than 30 minutes prior to departure time to insure you do not miss the boat.

Get the best of both worlds! Arrive by boat to enjoy the ocean and fly back to see the Great Barrier Reef from above!

If you want us to book any of these we are happy to do so for an additional fee of $25 per person. Just contact drlori@drloriebert.com.

A week before your travel dates we will provide you with detailed arrival information and pick up details. In general this is what you can expect.

If you arrive by water taxi:

The Inn is located about 1/4 mile from the Water Taxi dock or about a 10 minute walk. If you would like help with your luggage you can use one of the local porters with bicycle carts or hop on one of the taxi cabs (golf carts) that meet the arriving water taxis. The cost for each is $2.50 US per person or $5 BZE

If you arrive at the airstrip:

If a taxi cab (golf cart) is not already waiting for incoming flights simply ask one of the agents for the airline to call one. We’re located about 3/4 mile from the airstrip so it’s about a 10 minute taxi ride.

Standard 110 volts, A.C. (compatible with appliances used in United States). Adapters are available at the front desk. If you do not wish to bring a hair dryer, we have a couple at the front desk that our guests can use during their stay with us.

Visa, MasterCard, traveler’s checks and US dollars are widely accepted. A number of businesses do add on a percentage (generally 5%) to use credit cards. The Inn is not one of those businesses. The exchange rate is set at $1.00 USD to $2.00 BZE dollars. There is also an ATM at the local bank (Atlantic Bank) that dispenses Belize dollars. Plan on spending your Belize dollars before you leave the country because they are difficult to exchange outside of Belize.

Tipping in Belize is how most people make their living on top of very low hourly wages. Cash and small bills (5’s, 10’s and 20’s) are best to bring and use. Cash tips are certainly appreciated and workers are also used to tips as part of their pay checks. Belize people are prideful and like to please and serve and tips are the reward as much as your happiness! Customary is 20% of service or more if you’re super happy!

It’s customary to tip tour guides and excursion crews, wait staff, hotel staff, bag handlers, massage therapists, hairstylist, nail technicians, etc. or for special help (i.e. deliveries, stops, extra tours.)

The average taxi fee is $10 BZD. That is for standard ride, with minimal luggage to main areas during regular hours. Tips are appreciated but isn’t necessary – unless they stop for food, carry luggage to cart, up stairs, etc. If you come super early or late, with excessive baggage (as many do) or need to go to far ends of island – the taxi fee will be more. The best advice it to ask the driver first and negotiate so expectations are clear for everyone. Keep in mind they are responsible for mechanical maintenance which is pricey as well as gas which can be $10 a gallon!

There is a very nice, well-maintained beach right at the Inn. The beach features lounge chairs, umbrellas and easy access to the water – a great place to enjoy a drink and catch our magnificent sunsets. The swimming is typical for Caye Caulker – shallow waters out to about 300 feet, sand floor with some sea grass.

The complimentary continental breakfast is served at the bar from 7:00 AM until 10:00 AM.

Each room is equipped with a small hotel safe that allows you to set your own access code. They can easily store most valuable items… documents, cash, jewelry, cameras and laptop computers. For your security, we encourage you to use the safes.

We highly recommend purchasing travel insurance in case of any trip cancellation, medical expense, lost bags, airport delays, or hurricanes.

The best time to visit Belize is during the dry season, December until May. Temperatures are cooler and rainfall is decreased, though it is not unusual to have rain. The driest months are February and March, and the temperature then peaks in April and May. Reduced rates are offered on the off-season and a good time to visit is during our Lobster Festival which takes place at the end of June beginning of July.

If you are traveling solo but would like shared accommodations please contact us at drlori@drloriebert.com and we will do our best to help facilitate roommate matching!