PRIVATE RETREATS
Immersive Relationship, Intimacy & Sex Coaching
Dr. Lori C. Ebert
Relationship & Sexual Wellness Coach
Tailored Adventures
for Your Every Desire
Private Sextacular® Adventures are for anyone who wants to tailor their immersive experience or have an exclusive, private or small group experience by themselves and/or with Dr. Lori C. Ebert, Relationship and Sexual Wellness expert.
When you choose a private Private Sextacular® Adventure you get an exclusive week to yourself or your group. You may also choose preferred activities and tours for your immersion.
Immersions include yoga, adventure activities and 10-hours of coaching with Dr. Lori privately (if one couple) or group coaching if group. You can make special requests to meet your exact needs or let Dr. Lori recommend what you need based on your assessment call.
Typical coaching comes from Sextacular® Relationships, women’s Erotic Power & Pleasure©, men’s Masculinity Matters©, couples Partnership on Purpose© or Lovers for Life© programs. Retreat coaching is tailored to your needs and designed to give you take home skills for what you want and need.
Sextacular® Island Retreats are typically 7 days but can be modified with prior approval. An ideal trip includes 2 travel days and 4-5 days on the island. Bare minimum would be 5 days for a very short trip. Or 10 days, if you want to visit the mainland for 4-5 days on your own. Special requests are always welcome. Check the calendar below for available dates that take in consideration National Holidays and weather patterns.
RETREAT IDEAS
Couples Private
Explore how to turn an entire Caribbean Island into your private adventure orr ‘love shack’! Step into thrilling adventures and unlock toe-curling ecstasy in your life and relationships. Private Sextacular® Adventures are a way to escape the same ole’ daily grind, patterns and routine sex.
Take advantage of exotic and laid back tropical energy that will help you relax, reconnect to yourself or as passionate lovers. Dr. Lori’s targeted coaching, activities, intimacy homework and follow up care is just what you need to align, recharge and energize your life and relationships.
Retreats can be done as a private couple, or groups of close couples. Just no more than 4 couples per group.Immersion includes yoga, thrilling activities and 10 hours of coaching with Dr. Lori privately (if one couple) or group coaching if more. You can make special requests to meet your exact couple needs or issues. Or let Dr. Lori choose based on your assessment call.
Women's Private
Ladies invite your girlfriends to a Private Sextacular® Adventure in the Caribbean! Pick the friends you want to create unforgettable memories and laughter with. Choose your preferred activities, or spiritual ceremonies and topics like medicine wheel goal setting, femininity and sexuality, astrology, group hypnotherapy, or relationship man-talk. Pick your passion!
Consider a family girls trip with your mom, sister, aunt or daughter. All participants must be over 18yrs of age and no more than 8 people. Immersions include yoga and 10-hours of group coaching on Erotic Power & Pleasure© topics or special requested topics by your party. Number of days and length of trip can be modified with prior approval.
Men's Private
Escape the pressure and grind of your daily life, wife, kids, girlfriend or even your dog. Men require FREEDOM to reset and rejuvenate their masculinity and mindset. The fastest and surest way to access this freedom is getting away with other men in Mother Nature.
Invite your single, married or divorced male friends or family members to a Private Island Adventure. Experience thrilling, challenging and exhilarating activities such as caving, zip lining, cave tubing, scuba diving, snorkeling, kayaking, or kite sailing. Enjoy the Caribbean ocean on full/half day fishing excursions, chartered boats, or fly over the Blue Hole in the world’s second largest barrier reef. Number of days and length of trip can be modified with prior approval.
This can be a fantastic bonding friend or family experience. All participants must be over 18yrs of age and no more than 8 people. Immersions include yoga and 10 hours of group coaching on Masculinity Matters© topics, or special requested topics by your party.
Others Private
Family excursions, major celebrations or Leadership retreats can also be hosted by Dr. Lori via eLife Enterprises, llc. Email Dr. Lori privately with your special request and she will be in contact with you.
“Retreats require you to switch up the norm in your life and relationships. The coaching and thrilling activities flood you with feel good and reward hormones. This chemical infusion is what rewires neural patterns, creates embodiment and helps you change behaviors far beyond what sitting on a couch and talking can do.”
~ DR. LORI C. EBERT
WHY DO PRIVATE COACHING RETREATS
Many things are required for people and relationships to permanently change. First is an awareness of unconsciousness wounds, beliefs, behaviors, habits and patterns. Once aware of these, the healing and transformation journey begins.
Private Retreats offer a deep, distraction less dive into the most critical aspect of self and relationship. Current or new clients will discover sabotaging blind spots that limit themselves or relationships.
With Dr. Lori’s expert guidance and unique Sextacular® coaching methods you’ll identify what’s in your way and what’s needed to modify behaviors. Then you immediately put it to practice in your adventures, maximizing natural hormones to help you create long lasting change.
When you share thrilling adventures it activates adrenaline and has been shown to create unique, long lasting bonds between people along with fun memories. Detoxing from technology and distractions as you relax in paradise releases serotonin – the hormone that helps you feel happy, calm and focused. Priming you to learn, integrate and practice. The reward and motivation hormone – dopamine, is released after difficult tasks such as caving, sailing, or having vulnerable realizations or conversations. It’s the hormonal “hit” that makes you want more.
Also, recharging your connection with self or emotional intimacy and passionate sex with a partner releases Oxytocin – the “Love Drug”. Oxytocin regulates emotional responses, positive behaviors, trust, empathy, gazing, positive memories, communication and bonding cues. It’s the feel good juice people are missing in the monotony of day to day life. This becomes more available and abundant in the retreat experience.
Private Retreats give you the perfect hormonal cocktail to fuel, motivate and reward changes. Add education, environment, energy, embodiment and ecstasy and you have the elements necessary to rewire your brain for behavior change. All you have to do is say YES to the adventure, a support structure and bring your practices home!
FAQs
Yes, passports are mandatory along with proof of return. Visas are not required from the United States, the United Kingdom and Canada. Always travel with a photocopy of your passport so if your original gets lost the replacement process will be easier and faster.
Getting to Caye Caulker is possible by either taking a 10-minute plane ride from the international airport or a 45-minute boat ride from Belize City.
Flights cost $84.00 US one way or $168.00 US round trip. Scheduled flight times to Caye Caulker (CUK) from the International airport are 40 minutes after the hour, every hour. The last scheduled flight is 4:40 PM. Flight time is 10 minutes
with Maya Island Air, airlines Tropic Air.
If you prefer to travel by boat you must first take a taxi cab from the International airport to the Marine Terminal in Belize City. The cost is $25 -$30 flat (not per person) for 2 persons and the ride is about 20 minutes. A taxi driver in Belize City can be arranged to meet you at the airport and drive you to the Marine Terminal.
From the Marine Terminal you simply catch the next boat to Caye Caulker with San Pedro Belize Express. The cost of the water taxi is under $25 one way and $50 round trip USD. The trip takes about 45 minutes. Plan to be at the dock no less than 30 minutes prior to departure time to insure you do not miss the boat.
Get the best of both worlds! Arrive by boat to enjoy the ocean and fly back to see the Great Barrier Reef from above!
If you want us to book any of these we are happy to do so for an additional fee of $25 per person. Just contact drlori@drloriebert.com.
A week before your travel dates we will provide you with detailed arrival information and pick up details. In general this is what you can expect.
If you arrive by water taxi:
The Inn is located about 1/4 mile from the Water Taxi dock or about a 10 minute walk. If you would like help with your luggage you can use one of the local porters with bicycle carts or hop on one of the taxi cabs (golf carts) that meet the arriving water taxis. The cost for each is $2.50 US per person or $5 BZE
If you arrive at the airstrip:
If a taxi cab (golf cart) is not already waiting for incoming flights simply ask one of the agents for the airline to call one. We’re located about 3/4 mile from the airstrip so it’s about a 10 minute taxi ride.
Standard 110 volts, A.C. (compatible with appliances used in United States). Adapters are available at the front desk. If you do not wish to bring a hair dryer, we have a couple at the front desk that our guests can use during their stay with us.
Visa, MasterCard, traveler’s checks and US dollars are widely accepted. A number of businesses do add on a percentage (generally 5%) to use credit cards. The Inn is not one of those businesses. The exchange rate is set at $1.00 USD to $2.00 BZE dollars. There is also an ATM at the local bank (Atlantic Bank) that dispenses Belize dollars. Plan on spending your Belize dollars before you leave the country because they are difficult to exchange outside of Belize.
Tipping in Belize is how most people make their living on top of very low hourly wages. Cash and small bills (5’s, 10’s and 20’s) are best to bring and use. Cash tips are certainly appreciated and workers are also used to tips as part of their pay checks. Belize people are prideful and like to please and serve and tips are the reward as much as your happiness! Customary is 20% of service or more if you’re super happy!
It’s customary to tip tour guides and excursion crews, wait staff, hotel staff, bag handlers, massage therapists, hairstylist, nail technicians, etc. or for special help (i.e. deliveries, stops, extra tours.)
The average taxi fee is $10 BZD. That is for standard ride, with minimal luggage to main areas during regular hours. Tips are appreciated but isn’t necessary – unless they stop for food, carry luggage to cart, up stairs, etc. If you come super early or late, with excessive baggage (as many do) or need to go to far ends of island – the taxi fee will be more. The best advice it to ask the driver first and negotiate so expectations are clear for everyone. Keep in mind they are responsible for mechanical maintenance which is pricey as well as gas which can be $10 a gallon!
There is a very nice, well-maintained beach right at the Inn. The beach features lounge chairs, umbrellas and easy access to the water – a great place to enjoy a drink and catch our magnificent sunsets. The swimming is typical for Caye Caulker – shallow waters out to about 300 feet, sand floor with some sea grass.
The complimentary continental breakfast is served at the bar from 7:00 AM until 10:00 AM.
Each room is equipped with a small hotel safe that allows you to set your own access code. They can easily store most valuable items… documents, cash, jewelry, cameras and laptop computers. For your security, we encourage you to use the safes.
We highly recommend purchasing travel insurance in case of any trip cancellation, medical expense, lost bags, airport delays, or hurricanes.
The best time to visit Belize is during the dry season, December until May. Temperatures are cooler and rainfall is decreased, though it is not unusual to have rain. The driest months are February and March, and the temperature then peaks in April and May. Reduced rates are offered on the off-season and a good time to visit is during our Lobster Festival which takes place at the end of June beginning of July.
If you are traveling solo but would like shared accommodations please contact us at drlori@drloriebert.com and we will do our best to help facilitate roommate matching!
