Sextacular®
Coaching for Men
Unlock your purpose and potential to master the dynamics of deep connection, relationships and intimacy.
Learn powerful tools for communication, intimacy, emotional intelligence, and masculinity for unparalleled results in life, relationships & sex!
Don’t just succeed in your career – excel in your love life!
Common Issues for Men
- Creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships and addressing emotional or intimacy concerns
- Managing stress, anger issues; conflict resolution skills
- Work through issues related to masculinity or gender roles
- Dating, relationship and sexual advice
- Addressing sexuality issues like unresolved traumas, abuse, and performance; to how to have more sex in relationships or skills to be an unforgettable lover
- Improving communication skills, self esteem and self worth to up level themselves, careers and relationships
- Overcoming specific life challenges, early childhood wounds, and self sabotaging behaviors
- Support for substance abuse or addiction
- Increasing financial stability or income
Why Men Coach
I understand the unique challenges and dynamics men are facing in today’s world and their personal lives. Men feel trapped in an unfulfilling life, career, marriage and sex life. They feel immense pressure to provide and please over living their passion. They get trapped in masculine and societal paradigms or their own victimhood. Often professionally successful, they go home alone or to relationships they just can’t figure out or fix, despite trying and ‘doing all the right things’.
Contrary to belief, most men want relationship and emotional intimacy – not just sex. It’s just relationship isn’t always their ‘first language’ and asking for help can feel weak. So they get stuck in a ‘trying-but-not-working’ loop all fed by underlying fears of unworthiness, weakness or failure. Other men have great personal lives but need to make a change professionally. The same inner fears and societal traps stop men professionally keeping them in the rat race of doing what they are “supposed” to do versus what fulfills them.
The beauty of men is when they are ready to make a change they get in action and they DO IT. They jump ALL IN and as a result get amazing results. I have seen male clients create six-figure incomes, start new careers, end addictions, score the “love of their life”, have the “best sex of their life” (single or even with a wife not in coaching), save marriages, end marriages, work through affairs and addictions, get healthy and become an unforgettable lover. You can have this too… read more
Years of education and research into male psychology and sexuality gives me an extra edge when coaching men. I have an uncanny ability to understand the male psyche and communicate it either in man-language or in a way the female brain will understand it. Men will often just say “YES. What she said.”
Results Men Get
- Improved communication skills to express thoughts and feelings better for more effective discussions and fewer misunderstanding in relationships
- Conflict resolution skills to resolve conflicts constructively, reduce friction and create harmony in relationships
- Heal inner child wounds and trauma and rewire how they influence behaviors and habits
- Enhanced emotional intelligence to manage emotions, improved ability to connect with partner and feelings
- Understand relationship dynamics, patterns, boundaries and attachment styles to navigate relationships better
- Learn how to elevate and command their masculinity and sexuality to foster deep connection, passion and more sex
- Increased confidence, better work life balance, stress reduction, motivation and accountability, career advancement and improved self awareness
- Fulfillment and happiness from creating a more fulfilling and satisfying life by aligning actions, values and aspirations
How I Coach Men
All coaching begins with inner child, family of origin and trauma work. This is the root of our protective personality, i.e. EGO. In the first 1-3 sessions wounded egos and traumas are identified, named and a road map of self and personality is created. This is what I call your ego template. Then major traumas or “potholes” on your map are healed which provides a sense of relief. With a life long road map you are better able to navigate Self, relationships and life. You learn to pave smooth “roads” with healthy behaviors and bypass bumpy unhealthy ones. It’s the foundational work from which you develop a witness muscle, mindfulness tools, practices, and communication skills, etc. While you revisit the past, it’s minimal and the focus is on now and the future you desire. Together we create a happier, healthier version of you in future you love.
The benefit of concierge one-on-one coaching is having a program catered to what works for you. With individuals this varies by client and their life circumstances. Some have sessions weekly, bi weekly, monthly. Some use text message or video messaging as a major communication means between sessions, others not at all. Some clients do a lot of appointments, then pause, some are same day every week. Regardless, you have a “coach in your pocket 24/7.” You get support and help when life happens instead of waiting for your next appointment. While not therapy or diagnostic, my coaching brings aspects, theories, skills and tools from all experts so you get a solutions catered just for you.
Clients describe me as a much needed “velvet-hammer.” Even though it’s not always easy, they appreciate my non-judgmental, authentic and very direct approach because it’s rooted in love and compassion. I believe we are the co-creators of our reality with total control of ourselves and our experiences. This includes being involved with others – spouses, partners, children, family, friends even when others don’t change.
It only takes one person to be the change and when clients take on “I am the one.” and “It stops with me” they can positively impact any relationship. When we change ourselves we can shift everything around us. My job is to help you identify, heal and transform behaviors that are not serving you or allowing the life you desire. When you stop looking at others and own it all – everything shifts providing a healing empowerment you never forget. I’ll take you as far as you want to go which can include a high caliber of self mastery and self actualization.
Please note I am NOT a therapist. As a Ph.D. Health Educator and Relationship & Sexual Wellness coach I specialize in behavior change and education. I have the freedom to use ALL types of research based tools, methods and practices as well as non traditional methods – intuition, channeling, astrology, Human Design, Matrix Re Imprinting, EFT, QHHT hypnotherapy, yoga, yoga Nidra, plant medicine and more to help you achieve results.
If you are looking for diagnostic help or medication, please seek services from a therapist, psychologist, or psychiatric professional.
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