Transform Your Life, Relationships & Sexuality with Behavior Change Coaching

Rewire subconscious patterns and habits, heal inner child wounds and create healthy self-love and relationships.
 
Learn effective communication + conflict resolution skills + tools for emotional and sexual intimacy and get deep, conscious connection + more toe-curling ecstasy! 
 

How to Get Coaching

My coaching is a collaborative and supportive process structured to help you heal childhood wounds, master yourself, create healthy relationships and accomplish results.  Coaching can be done in a variety of ways as an individual or couple.
 

One-on-one coaching is the most intensive approach, catered to your needs and goals with full concierge support. Tele-health allows you to participate from anywhere in the world online or via phone. With a personal coach “in your pocket” you are never alone or waiting for your next therapy appointment.  You have dedicated support at your fingertips. Group coaching and courses can be found in the Sextacular® School of Relationships & Sex community.

Retreats are immersive, in-person events designed to help you rewire patterns while having fun with real life experiences and adventure. Get away as a couple, with like minded girlfriends, a man tribe for experiential self growth. Retreats can also be privately scheduled for couples, small groups, friends, families or even as work retreat. 

The Sextacular® School of Relationships & Sex is another option that can be done alone or with coaching and retreats.  This unique online campus offers a like-minded community, self paced courses and live events designed to educate, empower and grow you.  Learn what you want, when you want with the power of community to support you.   

Coaching for Women

This coaching approach is designed to empower and support you in fostering a deeper connection with your partner. Whether you’re seeking to improve communication, explore new levels of intimacy, or navigate specific challenges, our coaching sessions are crafted to address your individual needs.

During this coaching, we can discuss your aspirations, concerns, and any specific areas you’d like to focus on. Our goal is to provide you with tools and insights that will contribute to a more fulfilling and satisfying intimate
relationship. Your well-being is of utmost importance to us, and we believe that every woman deserves a relationship that brings joy and fulfillment. Read More

I lead women to rediscover and embrace their authentic selves from the inside out. Women often give away their power to relationships, children, work, and their own victimhood… leaving them unhappy, exhausted, and passionless. They lose themselves in being busy moms, wives, business owners and caretakers. This depletes their energy, natural spark and sex drive. They lose touch with their own femininity and creative spark.

Through coaching, women gain self-love, confidence and balance. They learn to create internal safety, set healthy boundaries and communicate their needs, including sexual desires. Many heal from sexual traumas, learn to feel sexy in their own body and unleash their erotic potential. Ultimately, women step into their fullest feminine potential, realizing they’ve always had the power when it comes to love, relationships, sex and creativity! You can have all this too! Read More

Coaching for Men

I understand the unique dynamics and challenges that men may encounter in their personal lives. This coaching approach is designed to empower you to navigate and foster a deeper, more satisfying connection with your partner. Whether you’re seeking to enhance communication, navigate transitions, or explore new levels of intimacy, our coaching are crafted to address your
individual needs.

In our coaching sessions, we’ll work together to explore ways to infuse passion and creativity into your relationship. Whether you’re looking to reignite the spark, experiment with new ideas, or navigate concerns that may be affecting your love life, our sessions are tailored to meet your unique needs. Read More

In today’s world, men face unique challenges. They can feel stuck in unfulfilling lives, pressured by expectations to excel in work, marriage and relationships. Most successful men struggle privately, unable to solve relationships or personal issues despite their best efforts. While it’s commonly believed that men only seek physical intimacy, most desire the same emotional closeness and connection women do – if not more so. However, many find it hard to express these needs and asking for help may seem like a weakness. They get caught in a cycle of trying but not succeeding, driven by fears of inadequacy or failure.

Other men thrive in personal life but feel the need for a change professionally. Inner fears and societal norms hinder them from pursuing their passions, keeping them stuck in jobs that don’t satisfy them. When men do decide to make a change, they commit fully and achieve remarkable outcomes. I’ve witnessed men transform their lives by securing six-figure incomes, pursuing new careers, overcoming addictions, finding great love, improving their intimate relationships, how they parent and making significant health improvements. If you’re ready, you can achieve whatever you want. Read More

Coaching for Couples

My couples coaching is a unique, intense process for those truly ready for change. Many couples arrive after years of therapy and significant financial investment, feeling drained and hopeless. They don’t want to end their relationships, but they’re desperate for relief and solutions. “Nothing works…” – until now.

As a behavioral change coach, I identify unhealthy dynamics both individually and as a couple, taking sides where necessary and diving into sexuality which often goes unaddressed. Unlike traditional therapy, I use relational coaching and share relevant experiences. Couples learn effective communication, emotional understanding, conflict resolution while healing their own wounds and those in the relationship.  While some couples may part ways, others grow stronger, and everyone discovers new patterns for personal and relationship growth. Read More

Am I the Right Fit for You?

My Coaching Style

I am so happy you found my coaching information!

You’ll find my coaching approach direct, authentic and compassionate – yet loving. My clients say I’m like a “velvet hammer”- firm when needed and soft when hurting.

Analytical and strategic; I call it like it is, say what needs to be said and I take sides in relational stances. I will shine light on your unhealthy patterns and teach you skills to transform behaviors and wounds. It’s up to you to use the skills.

I bring the science, research, mindfulness and intuition. You bring all of YOU, willingness, openness and a hunger to evolve. This isn’t talk-therapy… it’s radical coaching and real behavior change for conscious relationships.

Death has Taught Me Life is Short and Every Moment is a Gift

I also believe every moment is an opportunity to recreate the next moment. I can empower you to live in the NOW moment, teach you practices to maintain this and a state of happiness while you create living life at your fullest potential. Anything is possible if you believe and get in right action. I also know anything can be resolved with effective communication – if you have the skills. We just aren’t taught how to communicate effectively.

These are priceless skills I would love to teach you!

Being human is hard enough and creating healthy relationships with yourself and others makes the journey more pleasurable!

Specializing in relationships (with self and others) and sexual wellness, I work with women, men and couples. A partner does not have to participate for you to change your relationship – someone just has start. I invite you to take on “It starts with me.”

If you want more details go to HOW DOES COACHING WORK otherwise select what you need below. If you aren’t ready for 1:1 coaching then take a look at my retreats or my Sextacular® School of Relationships & Sex.

Or set up a discovery call with me HERE

I can’t wait to work with you!

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Dr. Lori

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